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Changing your relationship to the problem
Salman Rushdie nails it. He describes therapy in one paragraph. In the quote below, he says, I "changed my relationship to the event."...

Marc Komori Stager
Apr 26, 20242 min read
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Never give your kid a cold shower
This blog post is in response to a memoir chapter where a parent absolutely loses it. The chapter is hilarious—you will laugh, and you...

Marc Komori Stager
Apr 15, 20242 min read
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Those Mean Thoughts are NOT You
"I know about your lack of self-control and all the bad stuff you've done." I bet this sounds familiar to many of us. Don't we all have...

Marc Komori Stager
Mar 14, 20242 min read
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Our new website is here!
I am proud to announce that East Bay Family Therapy has a new web presence! The site reflects East Bay Family Therapy's focus on...
Dr. Marc Komori Stager
Mar 17, 20221 min read
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"Why" questions are blaming questions and get defensive answers
Use why questions with caution; they are inherently blaming. When people feel blamed, they tend to defend themselves. If you ask a why...
Dr. Marc Komori Stager
Jun 7, 20212 min read
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Who Owns the Problem?
Answering this question can help you relax. The Hard: Your child is in trouble, and it is hard to let him figure it out on his own. The...
Dr. Marc Komori Stager
Jun 7, 20211 min read
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